Physical appearance? Not to me exactly. I picked female because I felt I could open up to her more. On the other hand there are things I'd rather talk to a man about, guy stuff. So I had a list of females from this one clinic and some were more attractive from their online profiles and some were maybe less, but that didn't matter to me at all. I was looking at their ages. I didn't want someone too young who didn't have life experience, nor someone too old. For instance, had it been someone over 60, I certainly would have appreciated their professional experience, but I can't imagine saying some of the things I say to my T to a 65 year old woman. It's like it would be inappropriate even though logically I know that's what she's there for and she probably has heard far worse than what I have to say.

On that note, about to enter a new program, don't know what the T will be like. Kind of hoping for something different so that I can get new perspective. It's a short deal, then I'll go back to my regular T.