Just a brief update from me (time is going so quickly!): I'm now out to three friends and my boss as well as to a wonderful transwoman who is my colleague at work. So far, that went well, and I feel some relief just from having come out to these folks. Hubby and I have started to look for a suitable person to do couples counseling and my t continues to be awesome. My dysphoria is bad as ever, especially as I realize I will never pass pre-t - my face is just so feminine -, but I have joined a gym and intend to build some muscle. It *has* to be possible, right?

Very scared of coming out to my family...