Stressedmess,
That sounds more like an Ala-anon meeting that an AA meeting. I've been to lots of different AA meetings, but not Al-anon. But I have heard the didn't cause it, can't control it, and can't change it from lots of people I know in Ala-non.
Are those the meetings you're going to?
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"I danced in the morning when the world was begun. I danced in the moon and the stars and the sun". From my favourite hymn.
"If you see the wonder in a fairy tale, you can take the future even if you fail." Abba
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