I'm glad you have some solutions for your housing. I lived in transitional housing for about a year and 8 months, until I could get my own apartment with another woman, who I met in housing.

I'd definitely go for the female only, single room place. You don't need guys hitting on you. And there can be a lot of drama in shared housing, it's good to have your own room to retreat to, and you don't need to worry as much about people stealing your stuff.

Personally, I'd hold off on the DBT. I've done it, and it's really intense, and involves a lot of homework. I'd wait until I was a little more stable first.

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