Kate. I just read the money part and vitamins part. That does sound like a good man. Except when I read about his bad parts. And it made sense. It's about control for him.

It's his rules. He tells you what to do. Instructs you to things his way. Such as eating healthy. If you listen. You are rewarded. Example- he helps you with money. If you do not listen. You are taught a harsh lesson.

This is about control.