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In his side of things, I would definitely feel hurt if someone moved on from me that quickly - three months after 4 years isn't very much time at all to move on. So I understand that he would be feeling upset and even betrayed.
But to call it cheating? No.
I would definitely sit down and talk about what your relationship is, and about why the breaks have happened and what you both want to do about those.
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