Hi, brokenheartinsc, and welcome! It will take awhile for you to get over this relationship. I want you to keep in mind that many women are misled by men and find that who they thought they knew, they didn't know at all. Please don't blame yourself. Just try to be a bit less trusting for awhile, and keep your eyes open. Some folks out there are not decent people. No one deserves what these misleaders do to them. Okay?

Meanwhile, how about taking a trip into Charleston, enjoying the sites and the shopping and the restaurants, etc.? (I was there just recently. )