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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
Maybe you can shift your focus from "feeling ridiculous for feeling like this" to thinking through every little detail of the move. Once you are together, who will cook, shop, take out the garbage, etc.? Will you need to buy stuff for the apartment? Etc. They say the devil is in the details, but sometimes the angel is  . Little things can absorb you and make you stop ruminating about the "bigness" of the move. |
Hmm . . . I could start searching for and filing away recipes that seem good. He doesn't cook. I do sometimes, but we order out a lot. I don't want to waste money on that when we move in (plus it's healthier).
We will need to buy some stuff. But because of the damage I did to my savings this summer, it will have to wait. I have to save as much as I possibly can now in order to split 1st month's rent, security, and the realtor's fee.