Glad to hear things are coming together.
I agree with Splitimage, that DBT is intense and there is homework to do so that is something to consider. It is a commitment. However, DBT helped teach coping skills so that if I had waited until I was stable, that I know in my case, that would have never have happened without it. I just would have put off the inevitable and wasted time to get help that I needed. However, too many changes at once can be hard on us and very stressful. Perhaps getting settled into the new place and look into when they are starting a new program:classes and to start indiv DBT therapy with the program(?).
Best wishes as you find and get settled into the new place; also glad to hear you will not have to worry about somethings now. Take good care of you.