Firstly, sorry I haven't been a very active poster or replier!!! I do read lots of the posts though and I feel a lot of support just by doing this and knowing there is others who share a lot with me. I have read lots of posts on "attachments with therapists" so I know many have similar issues. This is my first experience of seeing a t, who I have been seeing for nearly 2 years. In my life, I have a great family and close supportive friends, but I have never confided in anyone like I have T.(something I never thought I would do). Over time I have become very attached to her, although I don't know what I see her as....not mother, not friend.....I don't know!! Lately, I have found myself wanting to end therapy and just get the enevitable over and done with. She is aware of this, but not why, and I don't think I could tell her. I'm trying to distance myself from her in preparation for the time when I don't see her any more. How do you deal with this......just cutting somebody completely out of your life? Someone who knows more about the inner you than anybody else on earth!! I'm dreading the end, but in some ways just want it over!. I hope some of you can share your experiences of this with me. Thanks heaps.