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Old Sep 26, 2014, 11:01 AM
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In Texas I have to prove beyond reasonable doubt that my husband is abusive to myself and my kids

I will not leave if there is ANY chance of him getting unsupervised visitation

I have some things recorded on a voice recorder... I have written things down

Some examples written are him putting duct tape on my dd2 mouth
Him grabbing my son and yanking him up to his face

I have recorded him seriously down playing or denying what happened those two times

I have recorded the latest fight between him and I.. verbally
Also recorded the way he speaks to me and the older girls

I've talked to their school so they are aware

Both girls often say they don't feel good
Headaches, belly aches, etc with no obvious reason behind them

Both girls have become afraid of the dark, both have issues with potty accidents at ages 7 & 6... their vaginal area often hurts and is red
I don't think he is sexual toward them as they don't show other signs of that type of abuse

I'm trying to get them into a counselor who is familiar with abuse, knows what to look for/things to ask...I don't have a lot of money, the ones who take medicaid don't get back to me
The one in town that is free doesn't testify in court if I needed it

What do I need to prove he is not to be alone with them? What do I need to be able to go back to my home state?

Last edited by TheWell; Sep 26, 2014 at 03:18 PM. Reason: Added a trigger icon
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