Well the reason is because all of my girlfriends get really upset when I introduce them as friends an if me an my manger ever try to I know once again it will be a problem an I definitely don't want to skrew it up with her. But I totally see how you think of this an I really like you all's answers it's been super helpful an well im defiantly confident an I don't need her approval but at the same time me an her a really close so I would really love to have it I don't want to hide it for years.