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Old Sep 26, 2014, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted by ToeJam View Post
Wow, that must have been mind blowing! I remember reading an article in one of the UK tabloids about his relatives and their discovery that he was still alive (as in, to the point of attack).

Was going to add a couple more myself... but that stunned me and didn't want to draw away from your post

So I am told mental illness is not genetic or has anything. I can see exactly what happened to him. The pull to just "let go" and not deal with responsibilities, and life , go live homeless, is strong. I just don't wont to be a functioning person anymore. It is a daily struggle.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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