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Originally Posted by prinssa
Yes I feel this is the hill we won't get over. This topic of me cheating is constantly debated in our relationship when it happened 7 months ago.
I usually avoid it because whenever he brings it up he gets terribly upset. He either cries and is really sad or he yells and gets frustrated.
Idk how to go about it when he is over emotional about this topic.
I know ignoring it won't help since he sees it as me not caring.
I do care about him and about our relationship.
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I think you misunderstood me. I did not suggest ignoring. I suggested telling him, once, that you offer to agree to disagree, and that he is not to bring it up again or you would leave him altogether. Saying that you disagree is not ignoring. Ignoring is pretending things away. Stating that you can only agree to disagree is facing things head-on while standing your ground.