I swear it feels like my S/O is just waiting for me to break up with him, or TRYING to make me break up with him, that way he doesn't have to feel bad. He can just be like "okay bye" and when I say well wait don't you care at all or something like that he can just be like "hey you broke up with me" :'( all I want is for him to be the way he was when I loved him and I could tell he loved me. Why do people change themselves so that you hate them?? Why can't they just grow up and say "I don't want to date anymore, so bye have a nice life"???