Is it REALLY okay for him to tell me that one of his coworkers asked if he and one of his female friends(not me, it's a long distance relationship) are having sex, and when he says no, for his coworker to say well if you're not you should be?? He said "well I didn't realize there are things that it is inappropriate to tell you...I thought I could talk to you about anything" and I have no relpy, all I can do is say okay. He knows he upsets me and then he just says "is it bedtime yet" and what else can I say but yes, if I do argue he makes no sign that he will change or that he loves me and it doesn't matter what anyone says, he just pretty much says whatever. And then he puts on this cheery voice to tell me he loves me and goodnight, and it just kills me because I think he's lying, even though he's never lied to me before and he points that out so I just feel crazy and guilty for accusing him...I'm just so upset and I want him to love me for real like he used to :'(