Oh my word, we'd be best friends. I totally get it. I never enjoyed wearing make up. I never really got the whole "being girly" thing. It took me years to realize that it's OK to wear pink... and that dresses could actually be kind of comfortable!
I found my husband by being me. I'm a musician and so is he. We met at a party and talked recording software and techniques for four hours. I never felt like I had to rope him in or impress him.
So honestly, keep being yourself. There's someone out there that's dying to go fishing with you!