Isnt the problem faced by most couples, how to keep the love alive? After a while, doesnt love usually fade? I get that this is different, but would you be asking it of a regular romance, or would you go with it, knowing that soon enough, he will be getting on your nerves. So it seems to me like there is another reason for playing hard to get. What would happen if you just accepted and stopped questioning what was being offered? What would happen, or what is the next step?