You guys are great! Thank you so much for the support. My mom has been dead now April 21st, for 5 years.

We never had time to say goodbye and I think that makes it harder for me.

Went to a movie with her one weekend, talked to her all week, and that next weekend she was dead.

But, she didn't have to lay long. She had metastatic lung cancer that had been missed on a chest x-ray. She never even had to decide if she wanted treatment. Just laid down and died. I think part of me died with her.

Thanks again for your support.
Okie