Kindergirl, seems like you have a good relationship with your t.....I'm unclear as to why you want to end the relationship...and if you do end it why the need to distance?....Also, what do you do in terms of distancing? Do you self-disclose less? Has something happened bet. the two of you that has made you less trusting of her? I've so many questions.....just trying to gain clarity so that I can understand you better....
Take gentle care,