Hi Gracey1, I'm sorry for all you and your significant other are going through right now. I hope things improve, I don't really have any advice on this matter but I'm sure someone will come along who does. Hang in there.
-Take care,
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“All the darkness in the world cannot extinguish the light of a single candle.” -St. Francis of Assisi
Diagnosis:
Schizoaffective disorder Bipolar type
PTSD
Social Anxiety Disorder
Anorexia Binge/Purge type