That article cracked me up. Some of the tips were useful though...

My thoughts/feelings are nothing like obsessive as they used to be, but there's still intensity all of the time. I think there are 3 'layers' of stuff going on simultaneously. That's probably why I'm finding that i contradict myself all of the time. It's much too complex for me to sort out. T will be able to though. I also think there's more to this than transference. Besides being safe and kind and intelligent and funny and in touch with his emotions, he really is charming and alluring, and really cute. So there's that....

What's going on in your therapy Petra5ed? It seems like you alluded to having to end. Am I reading that correctly?