It takes time to really "know another person ... Give yourself time in the future to enjoy dating a person and having good times.. Dont just wind up living with anyone so soon.... My T once told me to really get to know a person takes at least 6 months preferable 12 months.. People can and often do paint a wonderful picture of themselves .. But that "mask" can only be held up so long.

Make a list of what qualities you want and need in a partner .. Don't settle for less and certainly do not allow anyone to disrespect you.

take care