You will do just fine. It is important to tell him about your feelings, so that you can work through them and understand where they are coming from. You also want to remain an adult and not lose control and hurt him (for real, even emotionally), or look like you aren't in control. Right? So, tell him that too, and how it is important for you to acknowledge your feelings but in a grown-up way. Then go ahead and feel what you need to feel. I betcha he can take it and will understand.

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