I am so sorry this happened to you! That person had NO right to say that to you. I don't think you're using this site as a "personal diary," and I never would. We're here to listen to you, and help you. PMs like that can really bring this place down.
That person is an insensitive ***. Don't listen to them, okay? Please keep on posting, the rest of us only want to help you and are here for you.
I hope today is a better day for you. (((((((((((justy))))))))))))