What I don't get is how they can talk to me on the phone for hours about different difficulties I may have and at times even offered things like coming up from a thousand miles away to help me finish when I was having serious difficulties and yet they still think it's okay to say hurtful, mean things like this. The thing I'm wondering is can I count on their "support" that they have offered me in dealing with my difficulties or is it just a matter of time before something comes up that tics them off and they just walk out of my life. They assure me that this won't happen and that they are always "there for me" but these callous remarks and attitude I get from them makes me wonder