You're right, I changed my wording. Anyways, I don't support revenge plans, so I'll stay out of it.

Also I disagree these are even examples of boundary violations. These are more like boundary crossings, which in 8 years of therapy are going to happen. I think if the original poster files a complaint it will not hurt the therapist in the least, it will however damage any chance of reconciliation, so I would recommend not going there.