I am in a new relationship, been together about three months he says that he finds me to be cold emotionally and very blase about the relationship. He becomes frustrated that I don't ask him for what I want. I tend to allow him to be as he is, determine what he is inclined to give and decide if I find it acceptable. He complains that I do not make myself vulnerable to him. He is right that I ask him for nothing, I feel if he knows that I want emotionally and then chooses not to provide then his actions have informed me of all I need to know. Has anyone experienced anything similar ? And how did you overcome it ?