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Originally Posted by annegreye
Anytime anything on the subject is brought up between us, we end up arguing. It's like neither of us can fairly get our points across. I can't just say what I need to BC he usually feels like I'm just attacking him, ormi upset him otherwise.
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That type of relationship, where you cannot openly address needs, in a calm, respectful, empathetic environment will diminish the ability to feel in love with a person. If he cannot handle hearing you out without stating it's you 'making him upset'(note:red flag), then could be reaching a level of therapy work, or going separate ways.