hi lynn
maybe it is just perspective. those relationships lasted years...that is pretty significant........

maybe it is time to have a relationship with you. as you said, reinvent yourself or just get comfortable with being who you are alone. I have been alone 11 years now and am really enjoying the benefits of living life for myself. every now and then I think about a relationship but then I think about al the freedom I would have to give up and I am not ready to go there. I like me by myself.

just an idea. take care