I was mad at my t and I told her and we worked thru it.

maybe your t is approaching a sensitive subject that you don't want to unbury so you are responding angrily to push her away so that it doesn't surface. I would talk to her about the feelings you are having so that you can work thru them. it is obvious from what you have written here that you respect her and know the feelings aren't about anything she is doing but coming from a place inside of you. let her help you find that place. take care.