My sister feels like she has to be told every little thing. Today she wanted to know why I didn't do the dishes from yesterday. She says "don't let this get to you" which instantly raises my defenses. And I feel like I'm on trial. The part she doesn't realize is I was just keeping my self safe, as best I could. What she doesn't know is about the si. There are only two people that know. And that's how I want to keep it.

Anyone have any advice if it comes up again, kind of a work around type thing?