Hello I definitely prefer **** rather than vaginal because it's really intense the pleasure is magnified for me I instantly can orgasm from **** compared to vaginal I think it has something to do with their being ultra sensitive... but Buzz bee I totally recommend buying a small **** toy buy the smallest vib get use to it an just slowly work yourself into more serious penetration let your partner know it's takes time an gallons of lube.. Lol but totally try it! It feels soo incredible and if you like even a small amount of pain it will tip you over the edge ! Just be very sanitary have a safe word if you never tried it so he knows when to be slow or stop and have fun