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And now he's booked so I can't see him again until 17 days from today...

It's probably my fault for not scheduling ahead. I don't know how I'll survive this one. I hope this makes sense, if it doesn't holler at me...

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17 days. You don't have a regular weekly appointment day/time with him?

I think that maybe it's okay that you went off topic about whether or not you know him. I believe that in therapy, everyone that is said, is because it needed to be. You are working something out... even if you don't know what it is at the moment... if even your unconcious is still holding onto whatever it is... you are. You are doing work. Spend some time making connections about why it was important for you to talk about this with him. To state to him that you know enough about him. What would it mean to you if you really didn't know him? I don't know what the doubts are that you having with your husband, but maybe they are related in some way to what happened in therapy? Things do not happen by accident in therapy... there have been times in which I have talked about 2 or more things that are seemingly completely different-- and have also wanted to hit my head against a wall for not being linear-- only to have him point out to me (or at least help me to see-- he doesn't do a lot of direct pointing out, he likes me to see things for myself), that the things that I talked about were related in some way. Sometimes you just have to dig extra deep to find out what the connection is-- it is hard because occasionally I ask... am I reaching too far for this? I can usually tell the difference between when the connection makes sense and when I'm just going overboard. I hope you are doing okay today.