Thank you so much everyone for your replies! Many of your comments are basically extentions of my thoughts. It does a good deal of relief to know that it is somewhat normal to be like this, at least for us. Oftentimes, I wonder what actually being "normal" is like. I just feel either depressed or anxious all the time so I've forgotten...

I will try to find the counsellor next week and see. I would like to get a psych evaluation too if possible to see what is going on in my head. Perhaps it would be easier to deal with if I actually knew.