I always feel as though every conversation is leading me someplace I don't want to go, like trying to get me to admit I steal from work, or any other number of things I don't do. All I want to do is just to have a normal conversation where I don't feel as though the person I just met knew everything about me before hand. Usually if I realize this I just stop talking to the person all together. It always seems these people have formed opinions about me before we've actually met. That's all I want. To meet someone who hasn't been given a random meaningless list of things to say to me. It makes me feel 2. I meant alterior motives but my ipad auto corrected me.