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Old Sep 29, 2014, 11:35 AM
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Originally Posted by LibraryDweller77 View Post
I used to always cry in therapy, and lately I never do. I'm not sure which is worse! Bursting into tears the moment the therapist says, "How are you feeling?" is embarrassing, but I feel like the therapist doesn't take my concerns seriously if I'm straight-faced and unemotional the entire time. I'm not really sure what determines when I do and do not cry. There's not much rhyme or reason to it from what I can tell. :/
I can imagine that feels awful for you, but oh I would LOVE to do this, just once though
I know my T can see how much I am hurting, so does take me seriously, but still I'd love to be able to cry.

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I actually tear up sometimes, and when my last therapist told me she was leaving the field, tears spilled out of my eyes, but I had no connection to the emotion really, and it was just water pouring down my face, nothing else.
This is often the kind of crying that I do at home when alone. I don't often make a noice when I cry either, like I am scared someone will hear me.

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Originally Posted by Partless View Post
HealingTimes, this trick works magic:

Just as you are walking in, just casually throw yourself against the wall pretty good or maybe even slam the door on your fingers. If the therapist is cooperating, ask him/her to punch you real hard in the face. It really works, that pain makes most people cry.

I think I'll pass, thanks!
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Thanks for this!
Partless