Kinder.. what would taking a break mean to you?

Are you trying to distance from her, distance from a topic? I was trying to do both of the above. Instead, I found that I had a weak interpersonal skill where I wasnt voicing the pace I needed to move in therapy. So sometimes if I said, I would not like to talk about x this week, we could talk about something else and I wouldnt have to distance.

Now for the distancing from her. I had to view that as being productive for therapy. Its still hard and so i dont have any insights.

best of luck