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I guess I'd do a heck of a lot of reframing if it were me :-) It looks like you might get some "satisfaction" in the restriction so it's not exactly/purely a restriction? There's nothing inherently "healthy" about calling a T when they're on vacation or leave or whatever, even if they say you can? For me, it would be healthy to not call.

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He's not even on vacation.... We cut back on sessions because of my school schedule... so he said that in order to help me feel more connected during the week, to give him a call. I can't tell if this is a restriction, a punishment, a reward, I don't know.... But I can definitely see there are some serious connections at work here... I know it is related to my impulsiveness... I find it interesting how I will "do what I want" but suddenly when it comes to calling T, I'm counting off the days that I have made it without. I totally agree with you, Perna, in regards to the unconscious choices. I believe almost every choice we make is either unconscious, or has elements of the unconscious in it. An influence, if you will.