Pink, please don't punish yourself on your birthday! Give yourself a present and have an insightful conversation with your T!

Let me ask you this... If you don't call and he realizes that you almost never take him up on his offer when he says to call, he might not say it in the future. What impact would this have on you?

I see no harm in the occassional call...you might possibly end up going back and forth about this for several sessions.

<tapping fingers waiting to hear if you will call him>