This is embarassing, but my T used to wear glasses, and I guess now he wears contacts or something... but the week he came in with no glasses, I was kinda pissed.... and I couldn't get used to him without them. I was sort of hoping it was a one time thing, like he accidentally stepped on them or something, and he'd be wearing them the following week... but next time, no glasses. Week after week, no glasses. I never said anything, but I still kinda want to be like, "Um, if you are going to have a session with me, could you please put your glasses back on?" I can't say anything though-- he has never commented on my physical appearance... not even when I cut 6 inches of hair off, not when I come in wearing glasses after mostly wearing contacts, not the time I wore a bikini to session... HAHAHA, just kidding, I never did that last one! So I don't want to comment on his appearance. I don't want him to think I take notice, and that I react to it. He already knows enough about how I feel about him, don't need to make it worse, lol.

edited to add: That reminds me of the time my old pdoc in NY wore a huge Cat-in-the-Hat tophat on Halloween, which my appt. happened to fall on. I did not want to give him the satisfaction that I noticed, so I calmly went through the whole session, pretending not to notice that he was wearing a four foot hat, lolol.