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Perna said:
I I think everybody has up and down times, times when day-to-day gets in the way or school and work, etc.

One of my best friends in my whole life lives maybe 1-1/2 hours away and I haven't seen her for 4-5 years though we email every 6 months and swear we're going to get together soon :-)

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I just make up the work excuses.

Same thing happened again monday, I got a call from another girlie mate going 'listen im a bit worried haven't heard from you'. It makes me feel CRAP and like I haven't kept up my end of things and that's kinda rude ... I had not replied to 2 of her texts cos I had just been blah and then forgot ... it isn't how you should treat other ppl plain n simple - whether you are 'd-word' or not.

Re your situ, it is easy to not see ppl when you are busy but at least you bother to communicate