I would put the focus on me, myself & I. Take care of You first. First of all, stop looking. Join clubs & do fun activities alone, or with family & friends. Don't wait to live your life, until you're in a relationship. Live it. I didn't met my husband until I was in my late 20s. I was almost 30 when we married & he was in his 40s. First marriage for both of us. I was very picky about whom I was gonna spend the rest of my life with. I was worth it. My husband found my independence very attractive. *big warm frienship hug* That's just me.