Thank you. That is good advice (formal separation process). I did have a long discussion to my wife. No surprise, but she appeared surprised that I am far down the path. The children and their well being are very important to both of us, and hopefully we can be smart enough to work through the hurt and anger and come to a mutual understanding about next best approach. She sent me an e-mail (I do not like getting e-mails) stating that she understands I have made a decision however she will not be going in that direction. Well, that is where I am at. Thanks for your support. Regards,