[OK, I would stop asking your mom for her advice. I don't know her, maybe she's a good mom otherwise, but she's not a doctor. Trust the professionals to help you. Personally, I cant talk to my mother about anything for reasons such as this.

There's a lot of stigma around depression, I know personally. It sucks... My advice is to stay quiet about it especially around unsupportive people like your mother. I use this forum as my outlet to discuss this stuff. Sorry it's got to be so hard!