When you have issues with your significant other, I wouldn't share much with the family, less is more. What happens is, you've forgiven & talked things out with him, while your family hasn't; So, in a nutshell, they're still mad at him. They hurt for you then & now, because they love you & they saw how deeply hurt you were by him. I share my serious marriage stuff with close friends & surface stuff with family. Although I do trust my one sister with stuff. I learned the hardway who to trust. Your family loves you way way lots. It'd be easy to see why they are concerned for you in a big way. That's just me. *big warm friendship hug*