Oooh (((((( Sabau )))))

I wish I knew what to say to help....the only thing I can think of is this is NOT your fault.

Often times, in co-dependant relationships, the person in the relationship with the addict/alcoholic is just as unreachable as the active addict/alcoholic. Your daughter is powerless over this guy and her attraction to him, just like you are powerless over her choices.....you've done everything you can and now she's on her path. Has she ever gone to Alanon? Have you ever gone to Alanon?

I am so sorry you're going through this....I really wish I knew what to say......parents who are reading? Any experience strength and hope?

Hang in there Sab and keep posting ok?

~Rayna