I told my T today that I started to cut myself again after 6 months of no cutting. She said she was disappointed but see why I did it. If I was her, I would be so upset, furious, screaming etc. We put in many hours to create a detailed plan.

I didn't say anything to my T but don't know how she stayed so calm. She was nice about it as I was beating myself up.

My question is.....isn't a T suppose to mimic the good relationships you will have in the real world. In the real world, if someone helped you create a plan and then you relapse, they would show emotions and be upset. Shouldn't she showed some emotions. I wish she did. Or does she need to stay neutral all the time?