Being bisexual doesn't make the guy a rapist....however if these are your thoughts it may be difficult to control your own thoughts and actions...this guy has done nothing and yet you're thinking of pepper spraying him....clearly whatever the reality this guy is causing you to react with fear and violence on your part, that's not cool...don't see him until you are more stable... Also it sounds like you barely know him I'm not sure it's worth meeting him at all...he might not react well if you do become psychotic...