r2rsd,
I can understand that you cannot run away because of your academics right now, but a safety plan is still important! You never know when something might happen that would really require a way out. I work in a non profit organization that does work with battered women and their families and I can help you with any information you might need. Please do not hesitate to PM me.

Jessica

<font color=blue>The worst is over now and we can breathe again
I wanna hold you high, you steal my pain away
There’s so much left to learn, and no one left to fight
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain</font color=blue>
~Seether and Amy Lee